My boyfriend and I have lived together for almost a year now, and let’s just say it’s not going well. It seems like we fight constantly about chores and who does what.
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Smash Talks: For the Love of Money
We’re not struggling and even do well financially, but money comes up almost daily, usually in the form of a lecture or berating me.
Smash Talks: Digital Divide
Whenever I am around my mother, she spends the entire time on her phone.
Smash Talks: Millennial Malaise
When my parents were my age, they were well-established and a lot more stable than I am now. For a while, I was on the same path, but in my late 20s everything kind of fell apart.
Smash Talks: Tangled Connection
I’m seeing a man who is stuck in a relationship that is so entwined with his friends and living situation that we just pretend that part of his life doesn’t exist.
Smash Talks: Bad Boyfriend
I hate my friend’s boyfriend.
Smash Talks: Emotional Gratification
I’m afraid to masturbate because I worry I’ll think of my emotionally painful last relationship.
Smash Talks: Flowers for Others
A little over a month ago, I ended things with a woman I’d been seeing. There were many reasons as to why, but most of them fall under the “I don’t like how you treat me” umbrella.
Smash Talks: The Bounce
I’ve noticed that some of my friends seem to bounce from one relationship to the next, often with no time in between. I’ve asked the more serious offenders about this, and they never really seem to know why they do this.
Smash Talks: A Creep’s Contract
I have an issue that’s not about sex or relationships, but it’s still confusing and I’m hoping you can help.
Smash Talks: Emotional Intrigue
We haven’t talked about anything inappropriate at all, but there’s still something that feels a little off about this whole thing.
Smash Talks: Self-Care, All-Care
While I’m proud of myself for making ME a priority, I feel really guilty and like I’m a bad friend.