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I recently discovered that an ex of my boyfriend’s reached out to him in a definitely flirtatious 1000% non-platonic message. He doesn’t know that I know about it, and I’m furious.

My ex won’t stop blowing up my shit.  Do I have any options other than blocking him to get him to chill?

I’ve abstained from sex and dating for about a year now. I had to take myself out of game to spend time healing and growing from the whirlwind of experiences I endured last year.

For some reason, though, as soon as I really get attached to them, they end up pulling away and I’m left heartbroken.

I’ve looked online a bit, but I often get overwhelmed and just end up closing the tab after thinking, “where does that even go??”

After years of dating and failed relationships, I’ve been able to narrow down what is potentially my greatest flaw: jealousy.

He says that it was only a few times and that it didn’t mean anything, but I’m devastated.

Or will a blood clot really form in my leg and shoot straight to my lung b/c I don’t wanna have babiez like, ever!?

What kills me is how much I loved him and thought that I needed him, so I ended up giving up a lot for him.

This is super gross and I’m sorry, but is squirting real?

So, for as long as I can remember, I’ve always wanted to have sex in the water. I want to try shower sex or sex in a hot tub. Stuff like that.

Lately, a lot more people have been asking me in person and online about getting tested, mostly because of a (now falsified) article that named Buffalo as the “most dangerous city for online dating.”